Bad things about dating older men

15-Oct-2019 13:10

Language difficulties Even if you speak fluent Chinese or he speaks fluent English you still might have language difficulties in your relationship.

Perhaps his native language is a dialect of Chinese and you can’t understand a word they are saying in the family dinner table?

He might cook for you, or make sure you always have water to drink.

Or he might go shopping with you and insists paying for everything.

We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us. We hit it off right away and during the first few weeks, he seemed super into me.At first, I thought he was just trying to end things, but then from time to time, he’ll text me something really sweet, like about how much he wants to see me, or that he’s been thinking about me, so obviously, he’s still interested or why would he do that?Dating someone outside your culture, especially from such a different culture as Chinese culture is, it isn’t easy.There will be hardships, misunderstandings and compromises has to be made, more than if you dated and married someone from your own country.

We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.

We hit it off right away and during the first few weeks, he seemed super into me.

At first, I thought he was just trying to end things, but then from time to time, he’ll text me something really sweet, like about how much he wants to see me, or that he’s been thinking about me, so obviously, he’s still interested or why would he do that?

Dating someone outside your culture, especially from such a different culture as Chinese culture is, it isn’t easy.

There will be hardships, misunderstandings and compromises has to be made, more than if you dated and married someone from your own country.

Of course there are exceptions to this rule, but most of the Chinese men out there date to marry They might start talking about it very early in the relationship in order to know if you have the same ideas about dating as he does.