Dating a divorced guy with kids

18-Feb-2020 16:05

Perhaps his ex is trying to tell you who’s boss in HIS house, maybe she’s trying to talk badly about him, or butting into your relationship.

You’re not going to talk badly about his ex because you don’t want your relationship with him to be based on how much you both hate her!If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.Many people, men and women, assume that when someone is divorced they made a lousy spouse. Just because a man is divorced doesn’t mean he’s a bad man.As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! My mother always says, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” or, more delicately, just because he wasn’t right for one woman, doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for you!

You’re not going to talk badly about his ex because you don’t want your relationship with him to be based on how much you both hate her!

If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.

That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.

Many people, men and women, assume that when someone is divorced they made a lousy spouse. Just because a man is divorced doesn’t mean he’s a bad man.

As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! My mother always says, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” or, more delicately, just because he wasn’t right for one woman, doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for you!

There’s no need to bring toys and shower them with gifts and over attention. If you’re trying too hard, they’ll know you’re afraid that they will dislike you and ruin your chances with their father.