Introvert guide to dating

08-Nov-2019 20:30

Look, I get that it takes some time to work some of these things out, but part of my point is just that making it clear you believe trans women should be included is a good step towards developing meaningful friendship with us.

On the contrary, referring to a bunch of dudes as a “sausage fest” might not be such a cool/sexy/romantic thing to do (regardless of anyone’s actual genital status… I realize there are a wide variety of trans narratives out there, and maybe it could seem like a lot to work through.

Some of the conversation we shared was nice, we talked about film (fyi – an easy topic to hold my interest, ladies!One of the awesome things about the queer women’s communities is that I think we tend to be much more open about possibilities for intimate relationships.Some women are poly, some are looking for an exclusive partnership, and there’s everything in between.Not to mention that this results in some probably well-intentioned cis women missing out on connecting with lots of beautiful, amazing trans women.So with that in mind, I have put together some suggestions for cis women on thinking through some basic trans issues, including ideas on approaching trans women in a romantic or intimate context.

Some of the conversation we shared was nice, we talked about film (fyi – an easy topic to hold my interest, ladies!

One of the awesome things about the queer women’s communities is that I think we tend to be much more open about possibilities for intimate relationships.

Some women are poly, some are looking for an exclusive partnership, and there’s everything in between.

Not to mention that this results in some probably well-intentioned cis women missing out on connecting with lots of beautiful, amazing trans women.

So with that in mind, I have put together some suggestions for cis women on thinking through some basic trans issues, including ideas on approaching trans women in a romantic or intimate context.

Please adopt this language, even when trans people are not around.