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All they experience is the continuous suffering and they want the suffering to end.

So as an easy way to “numb out” from what might seem like unending suffering, they jump into another relationship so they can continue feeding their sense of well-being.

and therefore sets countless impossible expectations into motion.For people that haven’t yet fully realized that all of us need to be emotionally responsible (which is most people), this is where much of the pain of the breakup originates from (they blame themselves for not “measuring up”…or they blame the other person for not “making them happy”… It’s incredibly painful to believe that someone else could be responsible for your emotions or that you could possibly be responsible for their emotions.Maybe he changes his lifestyle, stops hanging out with certain friends, or changes his habits.MORE: 15 Undeniable Signs You Aren’t Over Your Ex It seems innocent enough, but over time the guy begins to starve for whatever it was he got from the things he gave up.

and therefore sets countless impossible expectations into motion.

For people that haven’t yet fully realized that all of us need to be emotionally responsible (which is most people), this is where much of the pain of the breakup originates from (they blame themselves for not “measuring up”…

or they blame the other person for not “making them happy”… It’s incredibly painful to believe that someone else could be responsible for your emotions or that you could possibly be responsible for their emotions.

Maybe he changes his lifestyle, stops hanging out with certain friends, or changes his habits.

MORE: 15 Undeniable Signs You Aren’t Over Your Ex It seems innocent enough, but over time the guy begins to starve for whatever it was he got from the things he gave up.

When we believe something that is out of alignment with reality, we suffer…